Has your sex life come to an abrupt end? If this is so, your first action would be to terminate the relationship. But what if you’re stuck in a life long commitment and ending the relationship is not really an option? Ending the relationship should only be the last step if all else fails. The best thing to do is to instead spice things up. Most people are cornered when it comes to this situation, so here are a few tips to get you started.
Engaging in foreplay would be a huge turn on for both you and your partner. What do you do as soon as you get into bed? Do you immediately get down to business? We suggest that you explore your intimacy by being a little more provocative and getting your partner used to a bit of foreplay rather than the usual business. Remember that foreplay doesn’t always occur in the bedroom. You can also call them from work every now and then or send them a text message.
The second aspect of spicing up your life in the bedroom is about being spontaneous. Don’t ask your partner if they’re in the mood for something else. Just lead on. For example if you’re in the mood, then don’t ask your partner to come to the bedroom, just lead them there.
Explore the lines of you’re intimacy with your partner by discussing your fantasies with them. One of the main reasons for dissatisfaction in the bedroom is because one of then partners, if not both are not satisfied with their partner’s performance in bed. No matter how dirty you might think your fantasy might be, there’s no harm in clearing the air with your partner.
The fourth and final method is to be a bit more experimental in bed. Discussing this before hand is a must just to make sure that you’re partner understands your improvisations in bed. Don’t feel shy to try new things whether its role playing or different positions.
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