A famous person once said, “Flowers always make people feel better, happier, and more helpful; plus they are sunshine, food, and medicine for the soul.”
Flowers are the champion of every lover in the world, especially for those in long-distance relationships. Wherever your loved ones may be, flowers are a timeless present for your most favorite person in the world.
But, if you’re still in doubt that flower bouquets make the perfect present for your partner that’s away from you, let our list of pros and cons of buying them help you. We also added a guide on how to choose the best bouquets to nail the whole gift-giving affair.
Advantages of Flower Bouquets in Long-Distance Relationships
1. Flowers are meaningful
Flower bouquets are the best gift as they represent your feelings or affections for your better half. When you pick their favorite flower or even color, there is no way they are not going to love it.
Each flower or color may hold various meanings, but the bottom line is that they show that you care. They express your warmth and love, especially when you’re in a long-distance relationship.
2. Flowers can stand in for your presence
In a relationship, it’s not uncommon to break a promise of meeting each other on special occasions because of work or a family affair.
Enter flower bouquets. When a significant other is upset you weren’t there on their special night, it is when flowers come in to save the day.
They may not be you, but they can proxy for you — even for a few days. But once you’re all free, be sure to come and visit them. Remember to bring another set of flowers to warm their hearts after missing that particular day.
3. Flowers can coax a happy smile off of a person
The bright and lovely colors of flower petals may cheer up your partner that’s disheartened because you couldn’t come on her birthday.
That pop of liveliness, the fresh garden-like scent, and heartwarming letter tucked somewhere in a bouquet can turn her sad face into a happy one.
4. Flowers can provide health benefits
Studies confirm that flowers as gifts can hit multiple markers that make people love them even more. Their sweet scent and beautiful hues generate happiness and improve a person’s overall mood. It also reduces stress-related depression as they increase positive emotions that help them feel more secure and relaxed.
With this, gifting flowers to a better half across continents will make them feel loved and improve their health.
5. Flowers are a good option for those who have it all
There is nothing more stressful than getting a present for a girlfriend that seems to have it all. They may not only have every single thing but even own the latest version.
Hence, flowers are undoubtedly a perfect option — they are quintessentially charming and affordable! They are also best paired along with your other adorable gift.
Disadvantages of Flower Bouquets
1. Flowers can be less original and personal
Sending flowers as a gift doesn’t require much planning as it’s simple to pick something they might like. As a guy, you could choose a flower in their favorite color — and that’s a no-brainer.
If you’re opting for something personal, flowers are still a wise selection, but make sure they’re a secondary gift. Pair these flowers with a gift that’s meaningful and thoughtful.
2. Emergencies may arise during the delivery
Do you know the hard part when ordering flowers online? They may not be fresh upon arrival, or your loved one’s local flower shop may not offer same-day delivery. Many problems may arise during the delivery of your order for your sweetheart.
So, we suggest you get a Plan B when gift-giving, or don’t get them flowers altogether.
3. Flowers may not necessarily reflect emotions — at least for those in a casual relationship
Flowers can’t save a long-distance relationship if it’s not yet strong to begin with.
Sure, flowers represent our feelings for a person. But if you’re still at the getting-to-know phase, it may be hard to express what we mean through flowers.
You may have the purest of intentions, but your partner may think of your gift as, “I saw these pretty flowers and I thought they’re like you — pretty. That’s why I got them for you.” It may sound sweet, but not all will think of it that way.
4. Receiver may be allergic to flowers
If you love giving flowers to every person you start dating, quit it. They may be allergic to them and may find it hard to tell you. Always get to know your date first to nail gift-giving effortlessly.
5. Flowers as gifts are not eco-friendly
As a guy, you may think that all women love flowers. But, not all women do; others hate them as they are not eco-friendly.
The tending of flowers alone could affect the environment. It uses a large carbon footprint and takes significant water usage. The pollution from pesticides, excessive plastic packaging, and even unfair labor practices in the supply chain makes them an impractical gift.
To make things worse, flowers wither in just a few days. If you want, many brands produce makeshift bouquets out of chocolates, food, or cash. These gifts could be perfect for your girl who doesn’t like to waste pretty flowers on a simple occasion.
How to Choose Flower Bouquets as Gifts
When choosing gifts for your significant other, consider the flower preparation or arrangement a flower shop offers. As a guide, select a slightly expensive but reasonably-priced bouquet. Costly flowers receive the best care and attention they need before being sold.
After that, choose a shop that’s located near your loved one, so you’re sure it reaches her at its best and prettiest state. They must also offer same-day delivery services. Moreover, it’s essential to choose a shop with excellent online reviews.
Their return policy must also benefit you, the customer. Online flower shops with a generous return policy mean they are confident that they offer top-quality products.
Lastly, consider your partner’s favorite flower or choose something that’s in their favorite color. Think about the type of occasion as well or your relationship with your partner. There are appropriate types of flowers for the level of relationship you’re in.
Make her feel special!
Sending flowers and gifts to your sweetheart in the Philippines — or in any country — may be sweet and touching for some time. But, it fades if you constantly make it your stand-in during special events.
No amount of flowers can proxy your value as their better half. So, always make time to visit (or go home to) your significant other if you’re free.
After years of being apart from your partner, be sure to make up for all the lost time. Be present and shower them with all the love you have. Good luck, and we hope they loves them!
Founder & Editor-in-Chief of Pinstripe Magazine. Creative thinker and menswear designer who has been writing articles dedicated to men’s fashion, lifestyle, luxury items, home design, gear, grooming and gadgets since 1998. For info on PinstripeMag, any editorial needs or to contact me please email at marv@pinstripemag.com.
