Instead of going for the cliché chocolate and stuffed animals, something exciting, and sexy will definitely up the ante for that special woman in your life.
Marriage and family therapist Wayne Powell says even if the art of seduction is not mastered, you should at least show an interest and a willingness to learn. He says, “This is a learned skill, and so you should know what works for your queen, what buttons to press, what love language to use, what songs to play, what image creates visual stimulation, and so on. The key is to maintain the seduction strategies you used in the courtship stage of the relationship, revitalize and improve on them, and keep the love flames burning.”
When it comes to gifts, lingeries are a big green signal in men’s mind. In buying something sexy for her to wear, you walk a fine line between being complimentary by suggesting she’s sexy and sending the signal you want her to look like something she’s not, which could easily come off as an insult.
Other ideas of gifts to take it up a notch on a special day and get you closer to mastering the art of seduction includes:
1. Fitness Apparel
If your woman is a fitness geek then make sure your list includes bold and sexy gym apparel which will not only make her realize your respect towards her passion but also will be an eye candy for you to check her out in those hot gym wears.
2. Lingerie
This Wednesday is not the day to wear the cotton undies that can almost serve as a bedspread. An interest and willingness to learn how to be sexy begin here. Remember this is your girlfriend; wearing lingerie is something that’s completely in her control. Thus you don’t buy something you want to see any woman wear; buy something you want to see her wear.
3. Sex Toys
A couple can have fun, depending on her liking, with cuffs, eye masks or other sex toys to maximize the sexual experience.
4. Customised T-shirts
A tee which says she is all in love with you! Grab an awesome design for your cool and naughty princess and get a customized t-shirt for her. Gift something she would love wearing! Available in different tee styles of polos, t-shirts, and sweatshirts, she would love the exciting designs, the range of colors and the comfort of super quality cotton in all shirts.
5. Massage Oils
Slow music, gentle hands, comfort, and relaxation? Sounds good and feels good, but…imagine if you are the one doing the massage, touching the silky skin and erotic curves of a woman’s body. Sexy, isn’t it? The power of touch is important, and massage oils can heighten this experience. The list of appropriate oils you can use is long. Hemp, Jojoba, Hazelnut, Apricot Kernel, Argan, Avocado, Safflower, Rosehip Seed, Walnut, Camelia, Coconut, Macadamia Nut, Marula, Almond, Moringa, Grapeseed, Sunflower, Sesame, Mustard, Borage oil or mixed oils are all good choices. Experiment with a few and find what you like.
6. Sexy Corsets
Buying gifts for a woman might be a fun, yet complicated task. Going for the sexy is the best to choose. If your woman is a bit more risqué in her outfit choices and lifestyle, go for a corset – a torso-hugging camisole that is usually lace or button up and will accentuate your lady’s curves.
7. Customised Jewelry
Looking to win her heart? You can never go wrong with gorgeous jewelry gifts for her. From sparkling gold and silver necklaces and bracelets to breathtaking gem and birthstone rings, you’re sure to find the most amazing gift ideas for women on many of the sites on the web. This can take the form of love bracelets or custom-made pendants, which she will have to hold on to and remember when years go by.
In the midst of all the sexy stuff, it is important to ensure that what you do is sustainable and true love is nurtured. Some gifts that are easy to maintain include calling your woman at work/home just to say “I love you”; offering to cook, wash or do a household chore that is usually done by her; composing a piece of poetry dedicated to her; showing regular affection by hugging and kissing; continuing dating, and even hiding a card/gift in her bag/briefcase to surprise her.
